How to Get Your Authentic Dream Life Starting Today
Having what you want starts with lining up to it. Learn the simple process of aligning what you think with what you do to get faster results.
By JAIME ELLITHORPE
I was recently invited to a business networking event where the speaker was a web designer. He gave a wonderful talk about how to optimize a website for marketing.
I decided after the event I would reach out to him and wrote down his website address.
The last thing I expected to see was a “coming soon” sign when I typed in the address to his website.
Why would someone who is positioning themselves as a website expert (to a room full of hot prospects no less) not have a stellar website of his own?
There could be a myriad of reasons, but my guess is he is so focused on other aspects of his business, (like getting more clients), his last thought was about his own web presence.
Can you relate?
Making Sure Everything Lines Up
Sometimes we get so caught up in what we want, we overlook some of the small actions we can take to move us towards our desire.
Very few things happen overnight.
It’s our daily actions, habits, and commitments that over time create the results we’re after. When we don’t align our “doing” with our “wanting,” we create a mismatch in the alignment of our desires.
“Having your dream life doesn’t happen over night. It’s a process, but if you know the right steps to take, you can achieve far more that you’ve ever imagined in a relatively short amount of time.”
Let me illustrate this further with an example from my dog, Brody. One of his favorite pastimes is sitting by the pantry door begging for a bone.
Sometimes his desire is so strong, he finds a clever way to lure me to the kitchen. Between the barks and dancing, I hand him a bone. Instead of a look of adoration, I get a look of disgust. “That old thing???” he says to me through his glare.
So, I hand him a second bone. Same disgusted reaction.
Finally due to my own level of disgust, I leave him standing there alone in the kitchen… with no bone.
I thought he wanted a rawhide more than anything in the world. All the signs pointed to that. So that is what I attempted to give him—exactly what he ordered.
But, because his actions contradicted what he wanted, he ended up disappointed…He was giving off the wrong signal!
Why What You Want Isn't Showing Up
It’s the same thing with your own desires. Maybe you keep asking, and begging and pleading the universe for something, but it’s not showing up.
If that’s the case, ask yourself, “What am I doing to bring this desire to me?” and “Am I lining up both physically AND energetically to get it?”
Your job is not to figure out “how” your desire will come to manifestation, but your thoughts and your actions have to work as a team to put you on the right path.
Become It and Then Achieve It
If you sell cars, clean yours up once in a while. If you want your partner to lose weight, what are you doing for your own fitness?
If you stand for environmental causes, what are you doing in your own home and in your life to be a shining example?
If you want X, show the universe how you’re on the path to being or becoming X. The sooner you feel as though you already have what you desire, you’ll have it.
None of us are perfect, but it’s worth a little check-in to see if there is more you can do to line yourself up with what it is you want.
Taking The Right Step Forward
I see many people try to work harder when things aren’t going to plan.
There’s no denying you must take action on your goals, but the thing I see most people stumble on is not doing the mindset or “energy” work to align themselves mentally and vibrationally with what they want.
When I work with my heart-centered business owner clients, part of the work we do (other than setting up the business growth strategies), is to work on their mental and emotional alignment to their goals. If things aren’t lining up, we work to make the necessary shifts.
I would say it’s the number one game changer for business success!
If you’d like to learn more about lining up with your business goals, I invite you to join my group, “The Client Attractor Club” on Facebook by clicking HERE.
It’s a group of purpose-driven, heart-centered entrepreneurs who are getting more clients, making a bigger impact, and having a whole lot of fun in the process! We’ll see you there! 🙂
I hope this helps, and let me know what you think in the comments below.
P.S. If you’d like to get amazing results in your business without having to do more marketing, check out my international best-selling book, The Mindset Method HERE:
